JUST WONDERING

      
                                                       There is always a difference

How on earth would you be with someone who is not into you and you would not know?
How can you not know that a guy or a lady you are in a relationship with, is taking you as plan B, C, or D?

Ultimately,
How do people go as far as proposing to their lovers and surprisingly get rejected.......i mean,
How did they not see it coming?
You are dating a lady seriously
Underline the word SERIOUSLY?
Yet, she does not call you often with such a caring intention or text.
Only you does the calling.
Ok, I understand some people are like that, they are not use to calling and all, but bet me, there is always something unique that would show you that this person is serious with you, Probably her response when you call or some other unique features.
Come to think of it, it is quite one sided.

When you have problems and try to share it with her, she just does not care enough.

WHY CANT YOU SEE THAT BOTH OF YOU ARE NOT ON THE SAME PAGE?


As a lady,
You are dating a guy and he never cares about your welfare.
Both of you never go out to have chit chats about the future.
No mention of dreams of both of you together
Every time he calls you, it is just to invite you over for sex.

Yes he gives you money after, you need the money, so no problem.
But then, the relationship is basically a sex focused relationship.

And you keep saying you are in a serious relationship
HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THAT THERE IS SERIOUSLY NOTHING SERIOUS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP?